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Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Visited With Grammy




Today we redeemed a gift to have a pedicure........... fun and relaxing. Thank you Linda, it was great. After our feet were pampered, cleaned and beautified we went out for lunch. Food again, my increasing waistline is glad all of this fun is soon coming to an end. Our restaurant search lead us to Redwood City and a funky little restaurant that in her last years was a favorite of my mother's. As we walked into this late 50's era place we immediately felt Grammy. Mom was here. I took her here to lunch a few times. The lunch was good, not fabulous, but it felt that we were with Grammy. This was a surprise for me. I did not realize that today was a day to include Mom in our day. It was perfect though.


After lunch we decided that Mom would have wanted us to have desert so we traveled up the hill to the Woodside Bakery. Mom and Dad lived in Woodside for 30 years. It feels like their home still. They loved the bakery. We bought a small box of cookies "on Grammy" and coffees. She would have been so happy that we had these cookies. To spend a little more time with Mom, we went to the Woodside Library where a bench was placed by our family in her honor in the beautiful native plant garden. It was indeed time to talk with Mom. It was time to say, "Mom, look at Anna. Can you believe it? She has new lungs!" Mom would have been so thrilled. As Anna said, she would not have done well during the intensity of the hospital recovery and all but only if she could see her now!


We sat on Mom's bench eating cookies and sipping our coffee. We felt her and Dad all around us. They were wonderful people who loved gardens, nature and Woodside. Again, it was a full circle moment of completion. Where I had sat on that bench my self since transplant, Anna had not. It made us both feel good to show Grammy the results of the past difficult year. When we sat there Anna said, "I have a feeling I am going to have these lungs for a very long time. They feel like they are at home inside me. They are happy here." Love that thought!

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